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Have you ever walked into a friend’s Summer BBQ and died a little bit inside as you realized that there was absolutely nothing there that you could eat? If you are gluten intolerant, this has probably happened to you on more than one occasion. And summertime events are the biggest culprits of all when it comes to stealing your poolside snacking fun! Don’t you worry though; there are plenty of delicious (and super easy!) gluten free summer treats that you can enjoy and bring with you to your next get-together. Here are two of my favorite dips and two delicious desserts for you to try:

{Taco Dip}
Love all things Mexican but can’t handle complicated recipes? This dip is perfect for you!
  What you need:
        • 1 8 oz. tub of sour cream
        • 1 stick of cream cheese
        • 1 packet of Taco Seasoning (Gluten Free)
        • Shredded Cheese
        • Salsa
First, melt the cream cheese in the microwave. Then, add the sour cream and taco seasoning, stirring to eliminate any “chunks”. Grab your nearest pie-sized serving dish. Spread the mixture along the bottom of the dish. Pour a layer of
salsa followed by a layer of shredded cheese on top and presto! Your dip is completed! All you need are some gluten
free corn tortilla chips and you are ready to party!

Don’t spend your next BBQ wishing there was something there that you could eat. Just whip up a simple snack or tasty
dessert that both you and the other guests will enjoy!

{Guest Blogger} Lindsay Martin-Nez

Positively impacting a child’s life is an incredible gift.  Quite often, a biological parent or lawful guardian becomes unable to care for a child.  When this occurs, a child can be placed in foster care, which is typically intended to be a short-term solution, until a child can be permanently placed.   Thankfully, there are people who are willing to open their homes and share their hearts with these precious children. It can be both challenging and rewarding, and foster parent Kimberly Day says, “The biggest challenge is letting them go once you are attached.  Most of the time you know from the beginning what the plan is (reunification with family or termination of rights).  You love them all, and I think they all take a piece of you when they go home.”  Today, we are delighted to share the stories of two brave women fostering children in Mississippi:

Guest Blogger: Mitchell Walters

{Kate’s Story}

“It can literally change a life.”  Kate and Justin Estess began their fostering journey just a few years ago.  “We had always talked about foster care or adoption.  One year we took some Christmas presents to an emergency shelter in Brandon and we found two children who we immediately fell in love with,” says Kate.  Nine months later, they obtained their license, but they were unable to get the children. 

Another six months passed, and a precious 2-year-old boy with fetal alcohol syndrome graced their doorstep.  Kate says, “He called me ‘mama’ within thirty seconds of getting dropped off.  Foster children are craving stability and do not need anything fancy.  They just need a safe home.”

The sweet boy stayed with Kate, Justin, and their two biological children for about 10.5 months, and his time positively impacted both the child and their family.  “We taught him how to eat, how to talk, how to play, just by existing in our house.  He picked up a lot of life skills.”  He also greatly loved their children and they were crazy about him.  Kate and Justin’s biological son was also 2-years-old at the time, and it gave him a wonderful playmate.  “Having a buddy was life-changing for my son.  He began talking and interacting.  It was also great for Justin and me.  We had to rely on each other; it made us lean on each other in a great way.”

Kate readily admits that fostering a child is not an easy job.  The ultimate goal of foster care is to reunite the child with their biological family.  She says there is danger in getting too attached to a foster child, but it is also dangerous to not get attached at all. 

Kate says there are about 4500 foster children in DHS (Department of Human Services) custody, and they need at least 800 families who are willing to foster a child.  She shares her advice with those who are contemplating foster care:
    -Talk to families who have fostered children.  Kate says, “You do not want to go into it blindly by any stretch!” 
    -If you are considering adoption, fostering is a great way to get your feet wet.  Foster care is typically short-term, and         you have some control over the parameters.

{Kimberly’s Story}

Another inspiring Mississippian, Kimberly Day, began fostering in 2001 as a single woman.  She fostered until she married, and she and her husband, Thomas, continued fostering as a couple.  Kimberly has lovingly welcomed over 30 children to her home, and has adopted three. 

Kimberly says, “You are serving the Lord in a way not many people are willing to do these days…you are teaching your own children to love without boundaries, to care outside your bubble and that ordinary people can make a difference.”

Kimberly notes that foster children do not need a lavish lifestyle filled with material things.  “They want and need love and structure.  I remember a little boy that I had who was turning seven.  The day of his birthday party he just cried and cried, because no one had ever given him a cake before.”

Kimberly’s advises that anyone considering foster care just “do it!  There are plenty of people to help support you along the way.  Yes, it’s scary at first, but so is the decision to have a baby!”

Thank you, Kate and Kimberly, for sharing your stories with us, and for providing loving, stable homes for so many children!

Photos courtesy of Kate Estess and Kimberly Day